As per the famous psychologist and Nobel Laureate Daniel Kahneman who said, human being are easily affected by pain, problems and losses rather than happiness and gain. It is natural and easy to identify mistakes and negativity in the self and others. And also to discover reasons to be unhappy than happy. Instead of expressing gratitude towards the support system, coaxing causes more problems. When one discovers more weaknesses and failures within the self, ignoring ones strength and success, life becomes a burden and unworthy. Yet, there are so many things to cherish, enjoy and celebrate in life.

Contentment is a solution for many things.  An individual remains motivated with satisfaction, as a result, one works harder to gather more success. Family and relations also remain happy with a contented person and they are willing to be a part of the person’s success and story.

Of course, there are so many things to blame, to complain or to criticize. There are thousands of reasons to cry because so many have lost their job and income, many have lost their near and dear, many are abused, so many children and youths are within four walls, but if one remains optimisic, there is always a scope for improvements. So one should strive for growth, improvement and promotion. Being transparent, balanced, truthful and motivated makes one knowledgeable, wise, skilful and successful. At the end happy.  Within all if one can identify one good thing and put all resources to compound them then positive things will start dominating the negativity. Out of 10 different things , even if only two are favourable and positive then, nurture them, pay extra attention to face the odd situations to conquer.

But by being always critical towards the self within odd circumstances, killing one’s own instinct to fight a situation, blaming the self for all failures, pondering on one’s own weaknesses, always assuming and presuming various aspects of failures, all these make one’s life hell. It is in the hand of each individual to choose a life like hell or heaven through our own Karma.

So choose the right decision: “Be happy and be positive”.